Health, Spirituality and Masculinity

Category Archives: Relationships

How To Love Yourself—The Key to your Amazing Future

Men are often confused about themselves. Men frequently think that they are unimportant. Men think loving is for women. Men will look at you in horror if you talk to them about how to love yourself. That is so sad! Do you know what love is? Do you know who you are? Can you honestly…

How I Found A Fabulous Marriage Using A Relationship Vision [Video]

For me great relationships are part of what makes life tick, so when I became a single man in my fifties the prospect of a new relationship terrified and fascinated me. I used a Relationship Vision to create a new, amazing marriage. For me having a passionate, creative relationship is crucial to a full life.…

Old People Love Sex Too—6 Illusions About Age And Sex

I question the stereotypes of older men having sexual performance issues and older women having physical attraction issues. I look at six illusions about age and sex for men and women. Old people sex is often seen by people as a contradiction. In response to my column about being a good man, ‘What On Earth…

How My 91 Year Old Relative Showed Me The Secret To A Powerful Relationship

Graham Phoenix explores the difference between loneliness and aloneness, and discovers how dependency can destroy a relationship. I recently visited a relative of mine who is 91 years old. She doesn’t get out of the house much these days, she suffers from dementia and is locked in her loneliness. Although people go in to see…

Men And Women – The Shifting Dynamic At The Extremes

How do you see what is happening in the world? How do you see it changing? How do you see the shifting dynamic between men and women? Why do I upset both men and women at the extremes when I write. What am I doing that scares them so much. Why can't they acknowledge what…

Walls Are Ambiguous, Two-Faced – Just Like The Boundaries We Set

I was trying to exert control over others to force them to do my will. I had no real control over myself, as I discovered over the following years of struggle with my anger. I realised later in life that you can only control yourself. To lead others you need to be seen to be…

Can Masculine Men Be Emotional – Will Relationships Work If Not

Men have a reputation for suppressing their emotions because they believe that to be emotional is to be feminine. Yet when men suppress their emotions they often destroy their relationships. My wife has been reading the book 'Getting To "I Do" - The Secret To Doing Relationships Right' by the well-known relationship expert Dr Patricia…

David DeAngelo/Eben Pagan Finally Finds Love

I received an extraordinary email from Eben Pagan recently. That's Eben Pagan who made millions as David DeAngelo of Double Your Dating. He is the man who is famous for popularising dating and The Game amongst men, in his own words, "... probably helped more men around the world how to be successful in dating…

Why Do Men Cheat – The Dirty Lowdown Of The Affair

Women seem to talk constantly about why men cheat. There is a perception that men cheat all the time, is this true? It creates an impression that men are not to be trusted, do you find this? When both men and women are asked why do men cheat, the immediate responses are often, ... men…

Love Is Not Arousal

Graham Phoenix looks at why kissing his sons helps them to grow. “I’d argue that perhaps the only thing that garners more suspicion than a father being affectionate with his daughter, is a father being affectionate with his son!” I read this recently from a commenter on GMP and was amazed. I wondered if I…

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