Radical Masculinity Coaching
I coach men who are committed to change in their life.
“Every human has self awareness and creative imagination. These give us the power to change.” (Stephen Covey)
What is your personality, what are your core beliefs? How did your upbringing affect you and constrain your development? What are you passionate about and what affects you deeply?
What is the life you are leading now and what are you doing to create it?
What is in your inner core? What characteristics were you born with?
How have you been altered by your life and the people around you?
“Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” (Marianne Williamson)
You have to like who you are and want to be that type of person. This is about accepting yourself, who you are and integrating all your parts. This requires openness and honesty.
If you don’t love yourself you can never find a way to love others.
Letting go of your patterns and issues reveals the path to your true self.
Move from your head to your heart and integrate your emotions.
“We need to find the courage to say NO to the things and people that are not serving us if we want to rediscover ourselves and live our lives with authenticity.” (Barbara de Angelis)
Look at how you relate with other people. The intention should be to be yourself so deeply, that there is no difference between how you are to yourself and how you are with others.
It is important to know what you stand for, what you will live or die for.
Your life is meant to serve others as well as yourself, you thrive on service.
What is your purpose, are you living it and pursuing it?
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I benefitted hugely from Graham’s coaching: from listening to his experiences of women, learning of his struggles and his successes; to seeing how it all applied to me, in my life.
I FELT his wisdom for myself, whilst in his presence; thus I felt my own wisdom.
And it all came via a series of great conversations where the unknown in both of us was allowed to unfold – where all the work I’d done on myself to do with relationships could be ‘seen’ clearly by me, for the first time!
So I am grateful beyond words for the guidance Graham offered me in our sessions – to being listened to – and the insights into myself I gained. And I’m also grateful I was able to put what I’d discovered into practice more or less straight away, via the beginnings of (what looks like) an incredible relationship with a fabulous woman.
So what, then, did I get from being coached by Graham? Simply to trust myself and the wisdom/feelings I get from my body (rather than my head), and to truly be okay with who I am.
“Hey Graham! Thank you so much for the hard work and guidance you put into your course. I am just diving in and really taking my time to absorb your wisdom. I am taking this course because I am tired of tolerating BS with myself, my life, and personal relationships. When I say BS, I mean forgetting what is truly important and valuable in life and ‘losing presence’ in the face of life. I am excited to have the opportunity to gather with a bunch of guys to learn more about being a man in the world and in relationship! Looking forward to the journey. Thank you again.”
“I have found this challenging, awakening, & frustrating – I can see why some men would not want to embark on this journey, but for myself – despite fear & resistance, I want to be more than I have been expressing myself as up to this point. I want to be a good man, a real man – not just the nice guy average man I became from my upbringing, temperament, & life choices. I think this is wonderful stuff, & I hope it gets out many more guys!”